Girls in North Eastern are in risk Losing
Their Futures
The World Health’s Organization definition of
sexual exploitation as any “actual or attempted abuse of position of
vulnerability, differential power or trust, for sexual purposes,”
Sexual harassment and violence in educational institutions is an abuse
of power by teachers and lecturers and corrupts the education system. It has
other severe consequences such as leading to girls and women dropping out and
left in the hand of stigmatization.
Northern
Kenya is a Somali predominant region, a community who stand their norms and
their unique tradition way of life. Each child is given an opportunity to learn
so that they achieve their dreams- sexual harassment, exploitation remain one
of the long protracted silent ordeals that remains the biggest untold menace- an
n act that has left bricks of pain, accumulation of injustice that left many
young girls or boys suffer in the hand of their protector.
Corruption
as abuse of power, sexual violence in educational institutions is a case that
undermines the integrity of the [education] system. Almost all schools both
primaries and secondary they are besieged by misuse of power and privilege to
harmonize the name of the institutions or the teachers implicated in the sexual
exploitation saga- on my long years of observations, investigation across the
sub-counties i have come across range of acts that are subjected to pupils and students
in schools.
Students,
especially girls, may be deterred from participating actively in class and
seeking academic excellence for fear of attracting unwanted attention from
teachers. This has created a stressful, intimidating learning environment which
also lowered the concentration, motivation and thus leading to poor
performance.
In Sub-Saharan Africa in particular, there are high levels of dropout
among female students who become pregnant, some as a result of sexual liaisons
with teachers. Pregnancy usually signals the end of the girl’s education- in
Wajir County early pregnancy is a thorny issue that is little addressed by all
stakeholders- many aspiring young girls were lured into fake relationship by some
teachers forcing such angels to suffer. Quite few who were impregnated their
dreams shattered.
Private schools such cases are covered due to a protection of identity of
the school while public cases ends without follow up – parents wallow in pain
with nothing to do later make a local arrangement in proposing the girl to a
close relative .
In boarding school there massive dean of sexual exploitations that tactfully
architectured, a trend that is little understood by the administration- wooing
girls into relationships while the normal lessons is going on- night prey by
the teachers. In anonymity some of the girls said some teachers who live nearby
school quarters give head up to the lady they are interested and at night they
sneak plan is fulfilled – this girls are given examinations paper so that to do
revisions before doing, upgrade of the marks, money, holiday tuition arrangement
especially when schools are closed they travel to cities or in towns in case the lady resides outside(outskirts of
town) and the teacher in town- to keep the relationship it’s kind of holiday
based connections.
Private tuition is a another syndrome is not easily understood – the parent
hire a teacher to give lesson at home, here no much of coaching from the parent,
the teacher take full set up on how to net this young girl- 40% of the their
time they engage in sexting, making long conversation, promising love as young
fourteen years old their mind is corrupted so they take advantage of her
innocence- a network of exploitation till high school some young girls were
even eloped secretly by this teachers – some even while in tuition at home they
were forced into night stand up twilight , in Wajir several cases happened a teacher
were caught red-handed while forcefully defiling a pupil while at their home
during private tuitions- a cobweb of darkens and disaster.
Some were even caught at their respected institution (staff rooms,
offices in private, public schools) engaging sexually during the break or after
class break- some rogue teachers went further forming whatsup groups to nab
this young girls either video swapping or image especially nude pictures- its
gateway of wasting this girls. Even some never went for transfer why by use a corrupt
way they sway their interest to stay longer and protected.
Sexual
violence in education ranges from low-level gratuitous actions to convey
messages of power – such as inappropriate sexualised comments or gestures, or
unwanted physical contact such as touching, pinching or groping – through
threats of exam failure, punishment or public ridicule, and sexual assault and
rape.
In higher
education, it often involves sex in exchange for good grades or leaked exam
questions, and sometimes also admission to an institution or to a high-status
course, the price of resistance is likely to be failure or exclusion.
Perpetrators
can be lecturers or administrative staff. In higher education, female staffs
are also known to be targeted by predatory male staff and sometimes by male
students- bullying the female to be a friend with benefits or a luring
mediators or sometimes they acts as a leeway to ease on preying to this young
girls in learning institutions.
Sexual
violence in education has been largely ignored by policy-makers, education
leaders and law enforcement agencies for long despite some laws in place on the
implementation of said laws is more paperwork why because corruption plays
biggest threat in realization of the
girls child dreams “Where it has been addressed. In Wajir, Mandera, Garissa or
even ASAL areas girls from these regions are prone to such ordeals why because with
poorly resourced education systems, low levels of accountability and high
levels of poverty and gender inequality. It is also experiencing conflicts for
decades.
There is also considerable under-reporting by students who fear
victimisation, including being failed in tests and exams, expelled from the
school, stigmatisation or ridicule; or because they believe that no action will
be taken against the perpetrator if they report incidents.
Amina not
her real name lost her future, her friends, and, for a while, her family, when
she got pregnant at 17. The man who got her pregnant, and whom she had been
seeing for nearly two years, rejected her and acknowledged nothing.
Her teacher
and he still teach in the same school and lives in the same village. Amina, who
had to abandon her dream of being a lawyer, has to see him in the community as
she walks through the village with the son he rejected, her father kicked her
out of the house when he learnt that she is pregnant many likes of Amina are in
the society left in limbo- teachers relationship with student are a threat to
generation to come.
In Wajir,
cases such as Amina are settled privately, in what is commonly known as “MASLAHA” with the men at
least agreeing to pay a stipend, to influence the poor parents to accept the
exchange of justice a more of impunity syndrome and in some cases agreeing to
marry the girl. That is a problem in itself in a County with persistently high
rates of child marriage and violence against women and girls. In Amina case,
the man refused to accept any responsibility at all.
Sexuality is still a taboo topic, so the girls who are the victims of
the abuse also bear the brunt of social stigma
Administration cover up
scam
Some
school principals don’t take girls’ sexual harassment claims seriously, or
punish the teachers. Some teachers try to manipulate the situation, sometimes
even threatening to give girls bad grades if they don’t have sex with them.
Other times, they offer to pay a girl’s school fees or give them money for
food.
Many students
I spoke to especially the secondary schools students complained against some rogue
principles not taking heed of the open sexual prey either verbally or physically
committed by some teachers in their schools.
Teachers rudely on learning time exposing
their sexual needs towards girls .Also they complained some teachers marking
their grades down because they refused to have sex with him. Even when they
forwarded their complained the teacher continues reprimanding his behaviour or
the abuse why they use their position of authority over the girls. He carried
on teaching at the school.
Some teachers abuse their position of authority by sexually harassing
girls and engaging in sexual relations with them, many of whom are under 18- acts
of paedophilia, taking advantage of the adolescence aged girls this mostly
happened at school time- calling in the staffrooms after class- rubbing,
massaging ,touching their private parts to lure into sex or even weekends in
their rental houses- a trend that
happened across the locations- with the parent mostly pastoral they have no
knowledge on what is happening, for the respect notion little is untold, again
with high illiteracy this bleaked the opportunities for pupils to have
discussion with their parents.
The teachers often lure them with the promise of money, good grades,
food, or items such as mobile phones and new clothes. Female students—and to a
certain extent, teachers and school officials—often characterized it as
“relationships
Sexual
exploitation and harassment by teacher’s takes place in a variety of ways: some
teachers would approach their students –during classes, school games,
curriculum activities or school evening activities — demanding a favour or
requesting their phone numbers. When girls turned down teachers’ proposals,
they believed the teachers punished them for rejecting their advances by
awarding them lower grades than they deserved, ignoring and not letting them
participate in class discussions or exercises. Often, the exploitation and
harassment span months or in one case in years.
Girls are
also affected by the gender stereotypes and sexual overtones they experience in
class.
Teachers use inappropriate language or
gestures –for example calling names darling dear, describing girls’ bodies or
clothes in a sexual manner—when talking to students directly or referring to
other students in their class. Some girls feel wary when they know a teacher is
making advances on a friend or classmate. When these types of harassment or
abuse take place, teachers, parents, or even classmates, often blame the girls
for attracting unnecessary attention from teaches, or provoking teachers with
their outfits- this beyond unacceptable the conducts of the teacher is
enshrined in the TTC ACTs
But many
cases of sexual exploitation and harassment by teachers have gone unreported,
and school authorities have not held perpetrators accountable. This is partly
because reporting cases of sexual abuse or violence in schools overwhelmingly
relies on a principal’s decision to act on or ignore a complaint, and because
families are reluctant to report cases to the police. Although some principals
take allegations seriously, they try to conduct informal investigations, talk
to staff discretely, and address problems internally, to protect their staff,
retain teachers, or prevent scrutiny from education inspectorates or child
protection committees.
In
addition, talking about sexual exploitation, harassment, and abuse is
considered a taboo topic for many girls. Moreover, many students do not fully
understand what sexual offenses are. Education about the full spectrum of
offenses, or how to prevent and report sexual exploitation, harassment or abuse
is scarce, and certainly not part of a national effort.
Even when
girls who are sexually exploited, harassed or abused want to come forward, they
are reluctant to report cases within schools for fear of being stigmatized or
shamed. When they do come forward, senior school officials do not always take
their word for it, and in some cases, are told that they have provoked their
teachers. This has led to mistrust among students, and a feeling that reporting
abuses will amount to nothing. As a result, girls affected by sexual
exploitation, harassment, or other forms of abuse, rarely see their cases
investigated, or see their perpetrators brought to account through the judiciary
and the Ministry of Education.
The
government should focus on increasing accountability for school-related sexual
offenses. It should ensure principals and senior school staff understand their
obligation to properly investigate any allegation of sexual exploitation,
harassment, or abuse. It should introduce adequate trainings on child
protection for all teachers, through pre and in-service training.
The
government should strive to end the culture of silence around school-related
sexual exploitation, harassment, and abuse, including by making reporting
processes clearer, confidential and student-friendly, and roll-out a public
education campaign directed at students and young people.
This campaign should tackle the stereotypes,
taboos and stigma that make girls and young women feel that they are guilty for
sexual abuses committed against them. The campaign should also seek to equip
students with the knowledge to understand what sexual exploitation, harassment
and abuse are, and the confidence to speak out whenever it happens.
It’s a collective
responsibility to stand against any sexual exploitation tamed toward our
dreamful girls- with high demand of technology it’s upon the parents to ensure
that they raise their kids better way. Parents should be more open to their children
have a good communication or discuss because todays generations lacks communication
with no iota that is what we have seen it’s
the biggest gap- parent should be free to their children.
On the
teachers they should be guided by the laws, ethics and think beyond their urge
needs they must have a call of identity as number two parents – they must be
the first role model not hyena feasting to their cabs – faith, trust, togetherness
and we must end this menace in our education sector if not I fear our
generation will be wasted flowers.
Twitter: @WaWajir
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